VENUS OPPOSING URANUS
This aspect depicts conflict which, when resolved, results in growth. Oppositions show a tug of war between opposing forces. If they are resolved, then the oppositions become the backbone and strength of the chart.
It is important to understand that the Venus rules Love, beauty and relationships. Venus also rules self-worth, the personal finances and earned income. Venus is aesthetic, musically inclined and artistic. There is an attachment or response to beauty. Uranus is the planet of a sudden change in circumstance, much like a lightning strike. Uranus also represents innovation, invention and independence. It literally strikes out and strikes out on its own, like lightning. Uranus is unconventional and electrifying; thereby bringing about sudden change in an instant, which can show up as being erratic. You can pretty much expect the unexpected when Uranus is involved and since it is opposingn Venus in this scenario, then this can make a sudden impact or sudden change in circumstance with Love and relationships.
This aspect reveals a sudden turn in events where Love and/or money is concerned. 'Unstable Love' and 'unstable finances' is putting it mildly. You may be mumbling under your breath unkind words about your partner or the opposite sex. You may be right there, right there on the edge of fed-up. You may find yourself saying, "I don't need this! I can be miserable on my own, I don't need any help!" At the same time, when in the midst of fresh or brand new Love, you may fall in Love so quickly that you skip over the getting-to-know-you phase and go straight into planning your coupled-up future. Venus rules not only the heart, but the finances as well. This could stimulate spending so quickly that the rent or mortgage due in a few days isn't even a consideration. Money may be spent quickly on what you Love and those you Love. Talk about Love is blind!
Since Uranus is anything but stable, meaning it is 'unstable', you may be torn between a need to be loved in an intimate relationship and a desire to be your own person. Uranus is a very independent planet so whenever Uranus shows up, there is rebellion and independence. In this case, there is a rebellion and independence with love. This is why those who have this aspect in their chart will typically have sudden changes in the status of their relationships and the result in on-again, off-again or several marriages. Divorce and separation are likely when this shows up in the natal chart. When this aspect shows up in an aspect (as for most of us) there will be that rebellion and sudden need for independence or desire to separate and divorce.
This aspect has a desire for exotic and original expression, which in turn makes the individual cut and run without consideration for the consequences. In relationships there is chaos and destruction in its wake. The individual with this aspect in their chart needs to know that its them, not the other person. "It's me, not you" really does apply in this case.
These individuals fall in love very quickly and fall out of love quickly. Love is like a light switch with this aspect. If you are dating someone new under the influence of this aspect, it stands to reason that it will end just as quickly as it started. Relationships that start and end that quickly I consider 'practice'. So while you are in the 'quick learn' then learn. Emotional force and change is under control with this aspect, or should I say, out of control with this aspect. It is difficult to commit to one relationship.
Venus not only rules love, dating, romance and relationships, it also rules money, self-worth, earned income, morals, values and possessions. When Venus opposes Uranus, then there is quick and impulsive spending. It's like the individual thinks they have a blank check or an unending bank account and do not plan for future needs of their money. That's interesting because Uranus rules the future but being opposed by Venus, Uranus is blinded by desires of the heart.
There is willful desire for freedom, so this aspect does not like to take direction, suggestion or advise from anyone. The individual needs to develop an appreciation for their own unique talents and gifts as well as those of others. While they may think and believe that they are 'the original' and there is no one else like them, that can be said for anyone.
This aspect is so unstable that it is erratic and the result is issues and problems for both individuals long after the relationship is over. It is emotionally unstable to say the very least. Expression in relationships is intense and dramatic along with a rebellious attitude that makes prolonged associations difficult and sudden breaks possible.
This aspect needs all types of exotic experiences and has very little concern for potential consequences. It is indeed a dangerous combination for love, money, committment and stability. This will cause others to just flat out give up on the individual with this aspect in their chart leaving the individual lonely and estranged from everyone else.
The person with this aspect in their chart will attempt to depend on their bright and witty charm to carry them to success in their job. Dealing with people will be their forte, but will only last so long, yet they will alienate their family and closest friends. Now click the graphic for your Sun Sign below and go read today's Daily Horoscope, plus your Monthly, Yearly and Generational Horoscope.
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