[Posted 4:15 PM EDT - Monday afternoon, 6/30/2008]
THAT DANG SOUTH NODE!
Osda Sunalei [Good Morning in Cherokee]
Read yesterday's Daily Message titled, What Is Good?
If you have been coming to this site for a while now or if I have written your Natal Chart then you know how important I think it is that you understand your North and South Node. Quite honestly folks, I don't believe there is anything more important in your Natal Chart than understanding your 'nodal' self. I'm going to list some rules that you absolutely need to adhere to when dealing with your North and South Node and it will keep you more sane than you might otherwise be if you are sitting and pouting in your South Node.
1) The North Node (Cup Runneth Over) - The North Node is your future self. When you focus on your North Node and do EVERYTHING as if you are the sign of your North Node, then you cannot fail. Yep, I typed, "you cannot fail." Example - I have a North Node Virgo; therefore, I do everything I can to become more Virgo-like even though I'm a Gemini (rah-hoo). Virgo rules health by the way so naming a healthcare website after myself was the best career decision I could have made. In each daily horoscope section there is a link to the rulerships of that particular sign. Look up the rulerships for the sign that your North Node is in and you will see that you have already been busy becoming your North "Nodal" Self. If I wrote your Natal Chart then I have included plenty of information about your North Node.
Your North Node and South Node
are always opposite signs to each other.
2) The South Node (Bottomless Pit) - The South Node is your past self. In other words, you have already been there and done that in a previous Life and there is absolutely NO REASON to keep pouring energy into this bottomless pit because you will never fill up that hole. The South Node is "the hole in your chart". When you focus on your South Node, then it is a complete drain to your system. Example - I am a South Node Pisces; therefore, I do everything I can to steer clear of Pisces energy or just keep my mouth shut around Pisces people. Now don't start making those people who you know to be your South Node out to be bad people because they are not bad people. That is no way to look at the situation. This is YOUR South Node, not theirs. YOU deal with it! YOU are the one that has to figure out how to co-exist with your South Node and put all of your energy into your North Node. If I wrote your Natal Chart then I have included plenty of information about your South Node.
3) Under no circumstances would I advise having a romantic relationship with a person who is the sign of your South Node. My South Node is Pisces so having a romantic relationship with a man who is a Pisces is completely out of the question. Remember, the South Node is the "hole in your chart". You cannot fix your South Node people so don't try it. Don't waste your time or their's. The South Node is like a drain in your sink without a plug and whatever energy you put into your South Node will fall right through like a hole in your pocket. Folks, you have already been around this block in a past Life so you may feel this "spiritual" connection that pulls you in further (the drain). My advise is just turn and walk away. One kiss with your South Node and it can take you years to get out of a relationship that was only headed in one direction all along . . . SOUTH!
4) What if their South Node is the same sign as your Rising Sign? Since the Rising Sign is your 1st house and rules your personality, then you need to make certain that your personality is not a drain to the other person. If you know this information, then it is up to you to apply the information to your Life and be sensitive to what your energy could do to others. It would be nice to periodically ask that person if your personality is a drain to them. This can help the relationship when you understand why this is so. I am a Cancer Rising, so those who have a South Node Cancer can count on me periodically asking, "What is it about my personality that might be a drain to you?" Folks, be sensitive to each other's South Node.
5) In the daily horoscopes, what should you do when the Moon is in the sign of your South Node? Take those days off or keep busy doing nothing in particular because the energy will probably be headed South (downhill) on those days for you. This energy can show up as defeated, depressed and lethargic or it can show up so busy and chaotic that you are pulling your hair out.
6) What should you do during the calendar month of your South Node? Honestly, you should go on vacation because during the entire month of your South Node Sign, you will probably feel depleted, defeated and depreciated. Those who are in business for themselves may also experience a drain in business. It's just awful. I guarantee next year during the Month of Pisces I will absolutely take that time off and go lay on a beach somewhere. I'll have the horoscopes written for that entire month early because I refuse to wrestle with the Sun when it is sitting on my South Node again. Right now we are in the calendar month of Cancer, so those people who have a South Node Cancer in their Natal Chart will be experiencing "the drain" during the whole calendar month of Cancer, which is from now until July 22, 2008 at 6:43 AM EDT.
7) What if you have your Sun Sign and South Node in the same sign? This is typically a person who is not comfortable in their own skin. In fact, they probably can't stand themselves most of the time. The best thing that person can do is . . . FOCUS ON THE NORTH NODE. The answer will always be "Focus on your North Node." If you send an e-mail or call and ask me a question about your South Node I guarantee that I will say, "Focus on your North Node." No matter what you ask me about that dang South Node, I will say it over and over again, "Focus on your North Node."
"Now get out there, go place yourself UP!
and practice being you."
-- Dr. Loretta Standley